Buying an engagement ring as a surprise for a girlfriend is a stressful task. Many men are overwhelmed by the choice and selection when they first start shopping for engagement rings, and this is compounded by high-pressure sales tactics in some jewelry stores.
The first thing to keep in mind is that high-pressure sales should immediately have you heading for the door. Instead, look for a retailer, ideally a diamond specialist that provides the support you need and gives you the time to consider and compare your choices.
One of the best and most cost savings options is to shop around and take note of what different carat weights and cuts of diamonds look like in the stores where you can see them in person and from all angles. Then, go home and start looking around online at a top diamond retailer. You will be surprised at the cost savings on similar or higher quality rings online compared to in retail outlets.
The Size
The first thing that anyone seems to want to know is the carat size of engagement rings, and this is a big factor in the price of the ring. If you are on a budget know your limit, but be aware there are some options to consider to help to reduce the cost while still buying a beautiful ring she will love.
The most common size for a solitaire type of engagement ring is one carat or just under at 0.9 carats. However, by choosing an engagement ring with a more elaborate setting or a halo around the diamond, you can select a smaller diamond and still create just as much dazzle and fire.
A halo ring has a small ring of diamonds around the central diamond. This can also be paired with diamond chips or other gemstones in the setting. Smaller diamonds that are surrounded by designs and ornate bands with small diamond chips or pavé diamonds provide a sparkling choice.
The Cut
The cut is not the shape, although often the two used interchangeably. The round brilliant cut is the most popular cut for a diamond, and it has the most internal fire and brilliance. The princess cut diamond is the next most common and has a square top with a soft V-shape when viewed from the side.
There are other fancy cuts as well. This can include the oval, pear, marquise, emerald, Asscher, radiant, heart and cushion. Each has a unique shape as well as cut, making them a perfect option for specific styles of rings or to match with particular settings and designs.
Choosing the cut and the carat of the diamond will be important. You can always talk to family and friends, or even work it into another conversation to find out just what she likes before making the big purchase.
